Its meant as a broad question as i would like some diverse input.
I have an “unfit” and rigid ruleset of how i define friends and how someone can be one.
It roots in my insecurities and want a starting point to redefine it in a healtier way.

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    17 hours ago

    I don’t know if I have a set threshold. It is more like a gradual process of transitioning from an acquaintance that I have common interest with to now they are someone I seek out.

    Brainstorming a more concrete answer to your question. The person has to:

    • Not be a pain in the ass
    • enjoy similar things that I do.
    • have good personal hygiene
    • be reliable
    • activity contribute to the relationship
    • treat people and animals well